Back in Libra season I made a whole chapter called 222 : The Soul Contract. A good friend of mine recommended a book called Soul Contracts by Caroline Myss. I’ve yet to finish the book in it’s entirety but I got deep in to feel motivated to speak on the correlation to 2. Two has it’s significance because it represents duality. In order to connect 2 the things that truly matter we must have balance between self and the physical being. It takes time, diligence, patience sold separately, and presence. This year I’m stepping into my 27th year of life praise GOD! It’s been a bumpy ride but God sai8d wait, there’s more. All thoughts aren’t good thoughts and sometimes we wind up in world wind of thoughts that simply do not matter.

Mind over matter.

When we use the terms “mind you” or “keep in mind” you’re naturally being programmed to know a key point during a conversation but does it really matter? Well, it does play a part in what motivated the point but there are cases that conversations turn into:

Things can easily get redundant when you’ve heard it all before or when you simply don’t have an idea why certain things are SO IMPORTANT. I was able to decipher what I wanted to be MINDFUL of and it all began with my body is telling me to do. I noticed when I felt uneasy or uncomfortable with changes that made me have to start from scratch. Alot of things are stripped away once you’re always having to start from scratch but when it did, it felt more familiar. So then it became a thing where you begin to want more easy and fulfilling things as simple as being near a park or watching your favorite show, and “THINGS LIKE THAT” in my Julia Fox voice.

Please go watch.

There’s nothing wrong with wanting beautiful things but you must work towards being that and work out the finances for how much it’s going to cost you ๐Ÿ™‚ Like for me, being GROWN is being able to do what works for you. Complications and misinformation can easy divert your journey and is it really necessary?! This may come with you changing your mind midway of doing something simply by realizing it doesn’t hold value to you anymore.

The first few years you’re going to fall, like legit on your face. It hurts, but not as much as your first breakup. By the time you look up, you’re going to be legal to buy alcohol and you’re still going to be SHOOK that you can buy it on your own. After a few times, you’ll be cool enough to not need an ID. Then boom, you’re 23. You’re out with friends, and doing fun things after work and during the weekend. All of a sudden, STUDENT LOANS is busin in ya crib asking for their $$$. By the time you get around to that you’re most likely somewhere paying rent or NOT (Because you deserve, ok). The point of the matter is, your twenties will fly by if you would just enjoy yourself. Go through the ups and the downs & truly HEAL. Lawd! You have 10 years to stop talking about the wound, after a while people will grow tired of the same old song.

Bills are a life subscription no matter how much you escape capitalism. Someone will always owe someone as long as we are here. Like THIS month in particular, I wanted T-mobile to give me a month off for simply being Black. It’s already hard on us already and it seems like it’s not clicking for these monthly subscriptions. Either way you put it, you’re responsible for what you’re willing to subscribe to. Whatever you are devoting power to, will manifest within your reality. I want the best for my people to win, to be HAPPY, and at PEACE. It’s the perfect time to be free to be who you’ve always wanted to be. BTS My motto is ” F*ck People”. It’s such a generalized word that you can be talking a about thousands of people who don’t know you IRL. Get to know the people in your circle and actually talk to them, stop being a weirdo. People f*ck with you but you have to f*ck with you first, you know this.

I hope this helped you enjoy your day wherever you are.

This post is dedicated to the person that has became vs the person I was taught 2b.

6 responses to “Get It 222Gether”

  1. Let me start off by saying, “what a master piece of life literature this is!!!!” – Chile- all this was me in my 20’s and still this in my 50’s. Life never stop bringing you new, repeats and wondering your mind into things that you have no business thinking off. And let me not talk about those bills- aka “monthly subscriptions” I’ve been dealing with them for so long, I sometimes in my dreamy mind do I need to commit but like you said we just got to keep going and find the balance although sometimes we do get wobbly.

    1. Thank you so much for receiving my message in this piece. Life itself is a challenge so everyday that we choose to live, we have to make sacrifices while finding different ways to enjoy instead of just enduring the experience. Once you create a healthy balance, you’ll learn to embrace the polarities of life. Love ya, thank you for being a supporter of DeFine Feminine!

  2. I love the insight of this masterpiece. Learning how to balance work and place is a much needed skill to enjoy the benefits life has to offer. Comfort is usually the thing that stands between where you are and where you want to be ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿฝ

    1. Whew that balance is like standing on one foot but it feels good to know that it also allows you to get two different perspectives of what is really important in this lifetime.

  3. And youโ€™re back! Lovely read as always.
    I think Iโ€™m going to ask my phone company for the month off as well because I deserve.
    Life really comes at you fast, so itโ€™s best to stop and smell the roses once in a while and indulge in things that make you feel good. Capitalism will always be here.

    1. Thank you for tuning in boo <3
      Yes I agree, we have to stop and smell the roses because everything takes time.

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